Happy Birthday Aries – seize the day!

Aries people are generally enthusiastic, generous, and lively. They quickly catch the essence in any situation. Yet, they can also be so eager to argue for a specific point of view that they become thoughtless or aggressive. They are not diplomatic by heart. The Aries is a quick-witted, restless type, and finds it challenging to be patient in a situation they dislike. It may very well be the desire to obtain something which urge Aries to take risks. The Aries bravery and disregard for danger is legendary.

If you have the Sun in Aries, you will exhibit the characteristics described above. Having the Sun in Aries means that your birthday falls between March 21st and April 20th. Additionally, if you have other planets in Aries, these traits will be further emphasized.

Let me share an anecdote about my second daughter, who is an Aries. She not only has the Sun in Aries but also the Moon and Mercury. Her energy is boundless, and she possesses a bold, straightforward demeanor. When faced with a challenge, she never accepts a “no” as the final answer. We’ve never doubted her feelings—she wears them on her sleeve.

Picture this: she’ll burst forth—whether in anger when upset or joyfully singing while showering. However, she harbors a fear of being deceived into situations she dislikes. Consequently, she tends to express her opposition upfront, even though she eventually warms up to them.

Take skiing, for instance. The rest of our family had been hitting the slopes for years, but Sophia (my daughter) missed out due to her studies in the US while we reside in Europe. This year, we decided to ski in Colorado and invited her to join us. Initially, she detested the idea. Skiing? No way! She lacked experience and dreaded the prospect of tumbling in the snow just to satisfy our skiing desires.

As her mother, I know her well. With patience and careful planning, involving her in decisions, we turned the situation around. Sophia ended up having the time of her life on the slopes. She embraced skiing with enthusiasm, exactly as I had anticipated. The key was to empower her—to let her take charge of her own activities. Aries individuals won’t tolerate others dictating what they should do!

Physical traits of Aries

Aries people typically have angular faces, heart-shaped faces, and chiseled bone structure. Their strong jawlines and prominent cheekbones contribute to their striking appearance. Being ruled by Mars, Aries individuals tend to be more athletic and active than most. Their fiery Martian energy translates into a strong presence. Often Aries has been related to the character of Tarzan!! If you have ascendant in Aries some of the physical characteristics may even be more prominent. Elle has an interesting article on Aries rising (ascendant): Aries Rising: Personality Traits, Compatibility, and More Explained (elle.com)

Aries in love

Aries possesses a strong urge to express their sexuality, and they do so in a positive manner. When it comes to romance, Aries takes the initiative. If someone catches their eye, they move swiftly. Energetic and exciting partners who match their intensity are particularly appealing to them.

Consider my daughter as an example. She has a younger boyfriend who shares her love for physical activity and outdoor adventures. They rarely watch TV or engage in passive pastimes. For her, this shared zest for life is the major attraction. Whirlwind romances are common for Aries, and once love takes root, it tends to endure.

My daughter, now 22 years old, has been with the same boyfriend since she was 16. Despite their age difference (he’s one year younger) and his lack of scholarly achievements (unlike her), she remains unfazed. What drives her is the desire for excitement—not cozying up on the couch or exchanging lengthy letters and reflections.

Read more about Aries in love and their compatibility with other signs:

Aries Compatibility – Aries Love Horoscope Zodiac Sign Matches (elle.com)

Aries Love Compatibility Traits | Horoscope.com

Aries and career: born to lead

A slow, cumbersome, tedious, and safe job is precisely what Ariesdoes not need. Aries excels in competitive work—preferably in a noisy, bustling atmosphere where they can take charge and use their initiative. Challenges are crucial and can lead to a position of power.

Career is the area of life where Aries is apt to shine the brightest. Ambitious, creative, and often driven by the need to be the best they can be, the Ram is at their best in the workplace. Born leaders, Aries are far more comfortable taking charge than taking orders. They thrive as managers and will often find their colleagues coming to them for advice. Aries initiates change and gets projects underway with enthusiasm. Some possible career paths are investment banker, entrepreneur, lawyer (my daughter aim at getting into law school), producer, executive, doctor among others.

Read more about Aries and career here:

Aries Career, Money & Success Traits | Horoscope.com

Parenting an Aries child: nurturing the fiery spirit

When you have an Aries child, get ready for a whirlwind of energy, determination, and enthusiasm. These little Rams charge into life headfirst, often shouting, “Me first!” as they race toward the swing or any other adventure. As a parent, it’s both exhilarating and challenging to keep up with their fiery spirit.

Embrace Their Energy: Aries kids are like human rockets—always in motion. They thrive on physical activity, so encourage outdoor play, sports, and exploration. Instead of stifling their energy, channel it constructively. A tired Aries is a happy Aries! Aries children need clear rules and boundaries. Their rebellious streak can lead to clashes, but remember that discipline doesn’t mean squashing their spirit. Be firm yet loving. Explain why certain behaviors are unacceptable without dampening their enthusiasm.

Friendship Skills: Aries kids can be so focused on their goals that they forget about others. Help them see the joy of shared experiences. Try to encourage playdates and group activities. Teach them empathy and how to be a good friend. Aries children want to be in charge. Instead of clashing, give them responsibilities. Let them lead a project, organize a game, or make decisions within safe boundaries. Their leadership skills will shine.

Remember, parenting an Aries child involves balancing their fiery independence with guidance and love. Nurture their spirit, and watch them flourish! 

Read more on how to parent an Aries: Parenting Your Aries Children | Maisonette

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